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Friday, May 11, 2007

Long Battle of the Genders

I am so furious right now!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like putting all dominating and egotisticly, irritating, foolishily disgusting male pro ifidfhi. Who ever said because you have a d*^k means you are better than a woman, I mean please!!!!!!! I used to think it was people that were not educated that had such a complex but I know in my life i have seen even the most educated of men display a high level of stupidity because he feels that women should be submissive and regard themselves as a level just above hired helpers at home.

I love men and this is not a general anger to all men but a high percentage of men small, tall, fat, slim,educated and uneducated alike feel the God given right to them is to be OBEYED and UNDEFILED. My anger is with some complete mongrels this morning in the bus on my way to work (please i'm bubbling like lava and my anger is erupting through my uncontrolable abusive language). the driver was waiting for a lady who was trying to make her way to the junction and meet the bus, but then some guy was shouting 'why she they waka like say she no get leg. Abeg leave am jare!!' And i simply said, 'she is pregnant, just wait' and then the mongrel said is she the first? Can't she run?' I shouted and told him to try getting pregnant and run and then omo!! check raking from the men, sth we for rack for bus.!! They were shouting 'don't talk to a man like that, he is a man'. I vexed and we were shouting and some men were on my side when they saw she was pregnant but the skunk kept shouting 'she no de look face'. Bottomline the lady got to us and begged us to stop and blamed herself for asking us to wait.

Its bad I lost my temper but why was he and 2 other men being so inconsiderate and uncaring? And that squrriel that was shouting 'he is a man' oh! i wished my thots could inflict harm. Even when a woman has power or in a position to assist a man you need to dock for cover unless you get a verbal or physical punch. It doesn't matter who is the weaker or stronger sex but pls let's call a spade a spade and not a lip gloss. A lady earning more than her partner is sometimes emotionally abused or called power drunk and domineering. She finds a job for her partner- now she thinks he owes her. A housewife calling to ask when her husband is coming home and then she is monitoring him. There are endless list of situations where fire and brimstone justify the reason why men emotionally and physically put down a woman. Struggle for independence and liberation from this societal ill has lead to a few women being bitter, angry, withdrawn or even violent just to get emancipation. Though to be fair there are a couple of the ladies who are an itch.
What makes a man be like this? Why is truth supposed to be silent when coming from a woman? Why has there been no explanation or solution to this battle? Did they have a secret men's seminar or workshop to educate them on insatiable quest for power? And most importantly - Who died and made them leader of the 2 genders?
Don't even try the biblical side to the story cos you will see a mad black woman in your face.

11 comments:

Unknown said...

ITS A MAN'S WORLD.
DONT BE OFFENDED,
IN TIME, YOU WILL WIN YOUR SPACE.
JUST ENDURE FOR NOW.
DONT HATE ME MA'AM.

NikkiSab said...

HMm...... there must be somewhere that the line will be drawn. This can't continue or do we have to wait till the yr 2050 for sanity? I don't hate u.. i'm calm now.

Bunmmy said...

My dear most naija men are male chauvinists, small minded and according to Nas Escobar 'niggas fear what they don't understand hate what they can't conquer guess its just a theory of man became a monster'. Enuf said

An-Igbo-Dude said...

well thank God the man did not become physical, it would have been a different story

Becky at lifeoutoffocus said...

that is horrible! i'm glad you said something!

racquelle-cutie said...

i'm a huge feminist too and i can never let a guy walk over or take advantage of me,lai lai that day two of us go enter one trouser

Anonymous said...

Gender wars!!! We all (women and men) need to begin to change our mindset...There's hope for us yet!

adoolicious said...

babe, u know spit for d men them face? like d saying goes shit is life or how does it go, anyways, live n let live, one day na one day, all men have their match in a woman, d one that will shut them up for good. whether their wife, mistress or prstitute, every one get their own.

sweetsista said...

MEN, they take the crown for being the most selfish and insentive species ever created. Those 'airheads' probably felt u were challenging their MANHOOD. O girl u try, i wish alot of us chics can do d same.Thank God for democracy o, if not...

Nnenta said...

Wow! 2 bad u had to go thru all that. Anyway, you men let me tell u something, we know u r the man of the house, in the bible we were manufactured from one of ur ribs, even at work u r paid more for the same job we do. The least u could be is respective and sensitive to us women. Right from day one, we go thru the body changes, the monthly curses, the PMS. Apart from going thru the pain during our first time, we have to endure the nine months of carrying OUR baby and then the labor pains. You men know u cannot survive all of the above. So why all the insensitivity? This is not the Stone Age. It is alarming that in 2007 we r still going thru all these.
Nevertheless, I'm glad those fools didn't lay their hands on you.

Nana Amoah said...

Dear, thank God the Idiot did not hurt you and how insensitive the supporting fools in the bus were.I share your views girl whether educated or not, they think its a mans world and they always think they are the best things that ever happened to the planet earth.