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Monday, October 22, 2007

Homecalling.













I moved to St Louis College from Command Secondary School and I was in J.S.S. 3a. I made friends with my classmates and a few with the other arms, but my best friend was in J.s.s 3b her name was Busola.O. We were like sisters and our friendship went on for 15yrs until saturday the 20th of october 2007. I can't believe she would av just gone like dat but its true. I was so sure it was untrue dat i called her bro n he was crying but to convince myself, I called her fone and den her landline and den her husbands mobile and dats wen it was sinking in. I got all my pics and poured it out, den selected her wedding pix to be sure who de r talking about. We were going to start a biz togeda n she called me last week tuesday for somethings and promised calling over d weekend to find out about my research and den know wat to send, but instead of busola's call I hear my girl is dead. How? Why? When? We were like two peas in a pod, I mean we call ourselves sisters cos she is d only girl. I spent my vacation in the uk with lily and den I moved later to her house and finally met my godson(who is now 1yrs old). We both did Bsc Geography and my bday was 29th aug n hers was 1st Sept and this year we were going to celebrate our 3 birthdays togeda but my boss didnt let me go and now my girl is gone? She was going to be two yrs in november being married and expecting her 2nd child by febuary and I hear she is gone. Wat of our promises, we promised to be each odas chief bridesmaid. I was hers and now she wont be mine? She was not to go anywhere till I am ready to get married, but it seems she is stone cold in a morgue? She has cheated me, cheated her son (my godson), her husband, her unborn child, her 2 brodas, her parents and all who care for her. At 29 wat d hell is ur hurry? We had issues to deal with and not for u to run off!!! I know i am so angry dat u r gone, I know I should be happy dat u r with our God and at peace but den wen do we all stop crying? I've been so scared to stay alone, I cant stop seeing u in my head? I've been crying since saturday and d tears wont stop. I went to church today and I axd God to remove my anger and be happy for u but .......... I can't believe u r gone dear, wat r we all gonna do now?Ur call is important on my bday and now u wont call me and I guess I cant call u? She is so beautiful, a real black beauty, caring, funny, crazy and....... now gone!!!


I'm not angry, I cant be, I am just sad dat u didnt fight to stay. Azuyi and now u??!!! I'm really sad u didnt stay. I'll check up on Tireni and Ade often-I promise. U too better check on dem too. You know the last words I said on our last call - I Love u and dat will neva change. I miss u and forgive me if I get angry sometimes, but its just cos....


Rest in Peace sister and say nice to God about us while u up there ok!!!

27 comments:

AN IBO DUDE'S CORNER said...

i am short of words...

Rest in Peace Busola.

hemba said...

I DONT WANT TO LET GO, BUT MY LORD U KNOW BEST; IS THIS WHERE WE SAY LORD I LOVE YOU, COS I DO BUT LET THE YOUNGER LOVES OUR LIFE STAY FOR A WHILE. BUSOLA IS FOR U LORD BUT SHE IS NOW AN ANGEL FOR THE PEOPLE SHE LEFT BEHIND.
HEAL ALL HURT HEARTS AND ENTERNAL REST GRANT HER OH LORD; MAY HER BEAUTIFUL SOUL REST IN PEACE, AMEN AMEN AMEN!

Onome said...

am so sorry to hear this....right now there are no right words to console u.....pls accept my earnest condolences and may ur best friend's soul Rest In Peace.

NikkiSab said...

thanks guys

Hopeful B! said...

i no a million 'sorries' will neva bring her back and words can't describe how u feel. Be strong gal, and continue being a sister to the family and a godmother to her son.
I pray that her soul rest in perfect peace with the Lord. May God comfort and ease the pain you and her family feel.

its such a sad sad story.

Odior said...

its so said.....i pray to God for her gentle soul to rest in peace...he knows best.....was remebering those days in maid.

princesa said...

Hey girl!
Life is just so fleeting...one minute someone is there, the next they are gone!

May Busola's soul rest in peace and may God help you bear the loss, Amen

Ugo Daniels said...

Why do peole have to die...it's all so sad :(

pamelastitch said...

I am so sorry for your loss.

May her soul rest in perfect peace. :-(

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

My condolences to her family, yourself and all those who knew her and will miss her. may her soul rest in peace.

Stay strong.

Manda said...

May Busola's soul rest in perfect peace.

DEath is inevitable my dear.x

Nyemoni said...

Rest in peace girl...Sleep well..

Lighty said...

well even in sorrows and pain, we give thanks. all will be well for the Lord is ur strength.

36 INCHES OF BROWN LEGS said...

hhmnn, i went down this road recently, when i lost my best friend of 22years, its gets easier, i rest well now knowing shes in the bossom of our Lord. May Busolas soul rest in peace. it is well. God will grant her husband family and friends fortitude to bear the loss. Amen.

NikkiSab said...

Hopefulb,Odior, UgoD, Princesa, Solo, 36inch, Lighty, Manda, Nyemoni and P.stich
Thanks guys!!! She at peace now.

E2Deep said...

My prayers goes out to you and her family.

Obinwanne said...

this is very very sad, I am short of words, but all i can say is that the soul of busola, rest in perfect peace, and let God be with the husband and her child.... take heart...

CATWALQ a.k.a LAGBA-JESS said...

May The Blessings Be....

Remember death is just the shed of the vessel. Soul never dies.

princesa said...

Hmmm...its makeover time.
Like ur blog's new look.

NikkiSab said...

Thank you all!!!! She is and will always be missed. And we will learn to celebrate her life.

Atutupoyoyo said...

May she rest in perfect peace.

Nneka's World said...

So sorry to hear your loss....

May her soul rest in peace...

Anonymous said...

sorry about your loss...
who is she in the picture?

bighead said...

Accept my heartfelt condolences. Its really heart-breaking when death strikes so close to home but we must be consoled by the fact that God knows best.

NikkiSab said...

Thank u all for wishing Busky a peaceful passage to d next world.
Annonymous- she was d dark, smaller lady.

Sherri said...

it is well.
take solace in the most high..

30+ said...

Deepest Sympathy