Some real sad news came to me last night. A girl who I attended secondary school with has been kissed by death. Today, the news about her death is worse than the mild news I got last night, it seems she died from wat many call a figment of the imagination, a disease that does not exist or made by man - yep, its AIDS!!!!!!!!!!
She got married at a young age and is the only child of her mom + she her self is a mom. We both finished school in in '96 and soon after got hitched to some big guy from the northern part of 9ja. We werent like two peas in a pod but we did know each oda some bit and she was a jolly girl. Saddly her marriage was no smooth ride cos we heard tales of her hubby's infidelity. It was so outta hand that he did it in their home and on their bed(How completely disrespectful,cruel and shameless could he av been). An old school mate told me d burial is tomorrow but wen i asked wat she died of and I got smacked with AIDS the cause of death, believe me wen i say I closed my eyes and imagined her pain. Her hubby died of AIDS a while back so its a sure deal wat fate befell her and it breaks my heart to think of the sad journey to her end. 1st being so cheated and heart broken. 2nd seeing her hubby die from aids. 3rd finding out she had it. 4th Watching herself go through the stages of d diseases. 5th Knowing her Kid will have no parents. Maybe even a couple more issues She only knew.
Why do we hurt ourselves. If he knew he wanted to cheat or had AIDS then why the %^@* did he pass it to her? No one says you really got to be married, i mean people will talk weda u marry or not. Who is going to console her mom/friends and importantly her kid? Why are people so calculatedly wicked? Heck, we r all going to the Maker someday but did she have to loose her life in a long and painfully excruciating disease? Was her evil getting married/trying to make her marriage work or sleeping with the man she vowed to love in the prescence of God? Does love in sickneess and health,for richer or poorer & till death do them part really av to be followed literally? Questions will continue to make my mind work overtime as my racing pulse fuels an anger for people (men & women) who are victims of lawless LOVE, but will it bring Sarah back? Unfortunately, it won't and all I can do is say a prayer and wish her safe passage to the other side.
For love gone wrong, for relationships with a violent,sad and unfair end and most especially you girl, even though death kissed u to sleep, I pray these angels wake u to the peace and joy of Eternal Life.(RIP)
Goodbye!!
10 comments:
Its a pity Sarah had to die this way. She really suffered but I pray that God will give you the fortitude to bear the loss.
its really a sad story. I pray for her baby and her family.
About Sarah's baby, I pray that she grows up with sarah's beauty and blossom longer than its mother did so that the sweetness and warmness of Sarah will be fely for a long time
Am really sorry dear, may her beautiful soul rest in peace. i hope she forgives/forgave her husband. she wll then be at more blissful peace with her self.
thus i say; RIP SARAH!!!
Now her greatest cry is "WHO WILL LOVE MY CHILD". God help us all...
Thanks Nana,Hopeful B and Hemba- i really wish she did forgive him. And her child will be loved.
I cannot help the tears running down my eyes right now. That was so sad that she lost her life when she had not even lived it to the fullest. In my line of work, I see the disease at its worst everyday and I am amazed that some people still believe it does not exist. Married people who think they have to cheat do not have enough sense to use protection.
May her soul rest in peace and may God protect her kid and console her family. Amen.
sorry for ur loss it is so sad!
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Eh yah!!!
so sad
i feel like punching the dude in the face(in his grave of couse)for causing sarah and the entirely family so much pain. i know people make mistakes but i think he went to far with the "cheating on his matrimonial bed" thing. so sad. RIP Sarah
Some guys may think its sissy but it breaks my heart to see men cheat on their wives. Whether they do it just once or they are chronic cheaters, whether they dont do it at home or they don it on their matrimonial bed, whether they dont bring AIDS home or not. Its just sad.
I really hope I never get caught up with that kind of sin.
Sorry for your loss.
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